Confusion

Confusions in life, will always be there,
Try clearing these confusions, only if you care,
Confusions of what you need to do in life?
Confusions of what you want to do with life?

Confusions only try to make you scared,
Seek guidance and help create your steps,
Decisions clear confusions for a while,
Then they come back with another kind.

Confusion only makes you think,
And help the mind to create its wings,
May its right or maybe it’s wrong,
Confusions help you to make you strong.

-- Karan Parwani

Fear

In general life, we fear some or many things. But we never spend time in thinking, what is that fear. For example we fear the darkness, but what exactly is it that we fear in the darkness. Thinking about this might even remove your fear.

We only fear the unknown, but never really thinking rationally about the fear. At times at work we fear we will not be able to perform a given task. But then think thoroughly, what will happen if you are not able to perform a given task. Not always will you lose your job, but we are more scared of making a fool of ourselves, rather than loosing a job.

Honestly no one cares of what we do, but ourselves. If you think about any problems and see the worst case scenario, you will realize that the problem is actually very small. That’s when you will be able to gain further confidence and perform better than you expected. Fear is nothing but an illusion of the time.

If we don't know something, we should not fear it, we should take it and learn it. Even an attempt will teach you something, and will not go waste. So think about your fears and you will realize most of them will cease to exist.

Dose of Thought

Most people are busy living their life, to ever put any life into their living.

-- Karan Parwani

Cause and Effect

A life without cause is a life without effect

Failure

If you fail don't worry, it’s not the end,
You will have a chance to do it again,
Never give up, on things you do,
Life is long, you will pull through.

You learnt it hard, which will do you good,
You will definitely shine better than you would,
So take that failure and move ahead,
You will come out stronger than every head.

Don't take this failure out of your life,
It will make you stronger, and fly high as a kite,
Failure helps you learn greater details of life,
Failure is not wrong, unless you take it right.

-- Karan Parwani

Think Think ...

All the art of living, lies in a fine balance of letting go and holding on.

-- Karan Parwani

Lost or Learnt

Look around you, and think about what you have lost in life. When we lose something we are too pre-occupied with crying about the loss. But we never seem to understand what we have learnt from that. Life is teaching us all the time, sometimes we learn the hard way.

But it is for us to truly understand the learning from that loss. Nothing lasts forever, what comes in this world must go, we must keep telling ourselves this every now and then. This will keep us less connected to things around us, at the same time not hurt as much when we lose something.

So you need to ask a question, that have you really lost something in life or really learnt something from life?